机制：骗局的施工图Mechanism: the blueprint of the con
先看骗子自己的教科书。没有这一层，后面所有红旗信号都只是经验之谈；有了这一层，每一个信号都能追溯到它对应的心理机制。Start with the scammers' own textbook. Without this layer, every red flag that follows is just anecdote; with it, each signal can be traced back to the psychological mechanism it belongs to.
证据来源Where the evidence comes from
The PaperAsyalı, A. N., Frank, M.-L., & Hölzmer, P. (2026). Fake it till you make it: the psychological and communication tactics behind “Pig Butchering” scams. Journal of Cybersecurity, 12(1), tyag003. 卢森堡大学 SnT / FINATRAX，开放获取。, 12(1), tyag003. University of Luxembourg, SnT / FINATRAX. Open access.
此前所有杀猪盘研究的材料都来自受害者一侧——访谈、法庭文书、新闻。这些能描述做了什么和怎么做的，回答不了为什么持续奏效。这篇是第一个系统使用诈骗方一手训练文档的研究。Until now, every study of pig-butchering scams drew its material from the victim's side — interviews, court documents, news reports. Those can describe what was done and how it was done, but not why it keeps working. This is the first study to make systematic use of first-hand training documents from the offender's side.
全球反诈组织Global Anti-Scam Organisation
未被公网收录Five major indexes
none of it publicly indexed
- 篇幅跨度Length range
- 三到五页的单阶段短文档，到超过 200 页的全流程大部头From three-to-five-page notes covering a single stage, to 200-page-plus volumes covering the entire pipeline
- 体例与格式Style and format
- 模块化清单式祈使句为主；另有案例叙事、模拟对话、流程图。文件形态包括 PPT、Excel 表、带批注的 PDFMostly modular checklists written in the imperative; also case narratives, mock dialogues and flowcharts. File formats include PowerPoint decks, Excel sheets and annotated PDFs
- 附带资源Bundled resources
- 部分手册附有情话语录清单、奢侈品牌参考，以及红酒品鉴 / 古典乐 / 高尔夫这类"精英爱好"话题库——它们的功能不是让人有趣，是给一个虚构的阶层身份提供细节支撑Some manuals come with lists of romantic lines, luxury-brand references, and topic banks on "elite hobbies" such as wine tasting, classical music and golf — their function is not to make the operator interesting, but to supply supporting detail for a fabricated class identity
- 近乎全覆盖的两项The two near-universal items
- 五项必采信息：年龄 · 职业 · 婚姻状况 · 有无房产 · 有无车辆
人设四要素：家庭 · 教育 · 财务 · 感情史，四条线要求互相咬合Five mandatory data points: age · occupation · marital status · property ownership · car ownership
Four persona pillars: family · education · finances · romantic history, with all four required to interlock - 文本关系Relations between texts
- 彼此没有逐字重复，但结构、排序、主题推进高度雷同There is no verbatim duplication between them, yet their structure, ordering and thematic progression are strikingly alike
- 写作者判断Who wrote them
- 专业口吻 + 导师笔法，判断出自资深操盘手或组织内管理者A professional register plus a mentor's voice; assessed to be the work of veteran operators or managers inside the organization
- 可追溯性Traceability
- 无创建日期、无版本迭代痕迹、作者与分发链路均不可考No creation dates, no traces of version iteration; authorship and distribution chain are both unverifiable
- 清单位置Where the list is
- 补充材料 B 的
Table B5列出 26 份的泄露日期、字数、阶段覆盖与主题Table B5in Supplementary Material B lists the leak date, word count, stage coverage and themes of all 26
全部手册共用一套商业词汇表：All the manuals share one commercial vocabulary:
这套称谓不是修辞，是管理结构的化石。当受害者被统一称作"客户"、钱被称作"切"，说明园区内部按销售组织跑 KPI——有话务、有专职假客服、有主管、有话术库、有转化漏斗。论文确认了这一点：诈骗集团设有专职假客服岗位，按呼叫中心的方式协同管理受害者互动。This naming scheme is not rhetoric; it is a fossil of the management structure. When victims are uniformly called "customers" and their money is called "the cut," it means the compound runs KPIs like a sales organization — with call volume, dedicated fake support staff, supervisors, script libraries and a conversion funnel. The paper confirms it: these syndicates staff dedicated fake customer-service roles and coordinate victim interactions the way a call center does.
七个理论是怎么筛出来的How the seven theories were filtered out
Method必须说清楚，否则容易误读：不是手册里写着"我们用了七种理论"，而是三步编码的产物。手册里只有两处显式点名了学术框架。This has to be stated plainly or it will be misread: the manuals do not say "we use seven theories." The seven are the product of a three-step coding process. Only in two places do the manuals name an academic framework explicitly.
开放编码抽战术Open coding to extract tactics
各自独立通读，标出描述操纵战术的段落，汇总后碰面调和分歧、合并重叠编码。读到第 26 份不再出现新战术，判定饱和。The researchers read everything independently, marking passages that described manipulation tactics, then met to reconcile disagreements and merge overlapping codes. By the 26th document no new tactics were appearing, so saturation was declared.
产出：战术编码表Output: a tactic coding table映射到既有理论Mapping onto existing theory
刻意不预筛：把范围扩到社会心理学与人际传播学，得 38 个候选理论（含 Cialdini 说服原则），再按解释力反复讨论剔除。Deliberately no pre-filtering: the net was cast across social psychology and interpersonal communication, yielding 38 candidate theories (including Cialdini's principles of persuasion), which were then pruned through repeated discussion of explanatory power.
产出：7 个核心理论Output: 7 core theories看理论如何互锁Seeing how the theories interlock
用关系型内容分析检查理论在各阶段的共现与叠加。例如养熟期同时用渐进披露模拟亲密、用情绪稳定培养依恋，两条线互为支撑。Relational content analysis was used to examine how the theories co-occur and stack within each stage. In the fattening stage, for instance, graduated disclosure simulates intimacy while emotional steadiness cultivates attachment — two lines that prop each other up.
产出：统一阶段模型Output: a unified stage model七种理论及其指纹The seven theories and their fingerprints
The Seven每张卡片下半部分是该机制被伪造时留下的可检测痕迹。The lower half of each card is the detectable trace left behind when that mechanism is forged.
印象管理理论Impression Management Theory
Impression Management TheoryGoffman · 前台/后台，角色表演Goffman · front stage / back stage, role performance指导"包装"：可信、顾家、有慈善故事、富而不炫。手册明确禁止直白炫富，要求改用讲故事侧面展示；并要求用生活化照片、不要用过于好看的艺术照。已婚/离异/丧偶按目标画像动态调整。This governs the "packaging": trustworthy, family-minded, with a charity story, wealthy but not flashy. The manuals explicitly forbid blunt displays of wealth, requiring it to be shown obliquely through storytelling; they also require candid everyday photos and no overly polished studio shots. Married / divorced / widowed is adjusted dynamically to fit the target profile.
指纹Fingerprint人设太完整——四条线齐整、随时能续上。"照片很随意所以应该是真人"这个推理，恰好是被针对性设计过的。The persona is too complete — all four pillars tidy, always ready to be extended. The inference "the photos look casual, so it must be a real person" is precisely what was engineered against you.
社会渗透理论Social Penetration Theory
Social Penetration TheoryAltman & Taylor · 洋葱模型Altman & Taylor · the onion model自我披露分层递进。手册直接用了"洋葱"这个词。同时承担筛客功能。手册还规定：禁止"你好在干嘛"式开场，要从对方动态切入；聊天简短但留余味，每次以"晚点再聊"收尾。Self-disclosure advances layer by layer. The manuals use the word "onion" outright. It doubles as a screening function. The manuals also stipulate: no "hi, what are you up to" openers — start from something the target posted; keep chats short but leave a hook, closing each time with something like "talk later."
指纹Fingerprint相识早期就被覆盖完五项审计。你在等对方回消息——那是被设计的状态。The five-point audit is completed early in the acquaintance. You find yourself waiting for their reply — that state was designed.
依恋理论Attachment Theory
Attachment TheoryBowlby / Ainsworth · 内部工作模型Bowlby / Ainsworth · internal working models扮演"安全型依恋对象"：稳定在场、可预期、有回应，记住重要日期、低谷期给保证。随后用丧失、被抛弃类自曝反向激活对方的照护本能——手册把"让客户主动来关心你"写成明确的里程碑。The operator plays a "securely attached partner": steadily present, predictable, responsive, remembering important dates and offering reassurance in low moments. Then, through disclosures about loss and abandonment, they reverse the flow and activate the target's caregiving instinct — the manuals write "get the customer to start caring about you" down as an explicit milestone.
指纹Fingerprint可靠性来得太快且零失误；照护方向在早期发生反转。Reliability arrives too fast and with zero slip-ups; the direction of caregiving reverses early.
爱情三角理论Triangular Theory of Love
Triangular Theory of LoveSternberg · 亲密 / 激情 / 承诺Sternberg · intimacy / passion / commitment 手册显式引用Cited explicitly in the manuals三条边分别施工。有一份手册直接把"完美关系"定义为这三者之和。对拒绝浪漫路线的目标，手册给出替代方案：转家庭线，谈孩子、关心对方子女。Each of the three sides is built separately. One manual defines the "perfect relationship" outright as the sum of these three. For targets who refuse the romantic route, the manuals offer a fallback: switch to the family line — talk about children, take an interest in the target's kids.
指纹Fingerprint"但对方从没谈恋爱"不构成豁免——朋友、导师、家庭线都是预案。"But they never made it romantic" is no exemption — friend, mentor and family lines are all contingency plans.
相互依赖理论Interdependence Theory
Interdependence TheoryThibaut & Kelley · 认知相互依赖Thibaut & Kelley · cognitive interdependence"造梦"：先套出对方的梦想，宣布为共同的梦想，然后加码——对方想买本田，就推他一起买奔驰或保时捷。把思维从"我"切到"我们"。"Dream-building": first draw out the target's dream, declare it a shared dream, then raise the stakes — if they want a Honda, push them toward buying a Mercedes or a Porsche together. It shifts the thinking from "I" to "we."
指纹Fingerprint加码是最锋利的单点。真实伴侣通常顺着你的预算聊，不会往上抬。Raising the stakes is the sharpest single indicator. A real partner usually talks within your budget rather than bidding it up.
需求层次理论Hierarchy of Needs
Hierarchy of NeedsMaslow · 安全→归属→尊重→自我实现Maslow · safety → belonging → esteem → self-actualization 手册显式引用Cited explicitly in the manuals有一份手册明确写出"这些技巧植根于马斯洛需求层次"。后期把投资框成个人成就与人生格局的兑现；犹豫则被描绘成软弱、观念落后、辜负他人期待。One manual states outright that "these techniques are rooted in Maslow's hierarchy of needs." In the later stages, investing is framed as the fulfilment of personal achievement and a bigger life; hesitation is painted as weakness, backwardness, and letting other people down.
指纹Fingerprint"成为更好的自己"与"打钱"被绑成同一件事。"Becoming a better version of yourself" and "wiring money" get bound into the same act.
自我决定论Self-Determination Theory
Self-Determination TheoryDeci & Ryan · 自主 / 胜任 / 关联Deci & Ryan · autonomy / competence / relatedness自主：反复强调"你自己拿主意"。胜任：安排可控的小额盈亏。关联：内幕稀缺 + 错失恐惧，并把机会框成"是我在帮你"。Autonomy: repeatedly stressing "it's your own call." Competence: staging small, controlled wins and losses. Relatedness: inside information plus scarcity plus fear of missing out, with the opportunity framed as "I'm doing you a favor."
指纹Fingerprint最反直觉的一条："你自己拿主意"是红旗不是绿旗。The most counterintuitive one: "it's your own call" is a red flag, not a green one.
统一阶段模型The unified stage model
Unified Stage Model · Table 3七个理论铺在三个阶段上，标注满载还是半载。墨色浓度即调用强度。The seven theories laid across the three stages, each marked full load or partial load. Ink density equals intensity of use.
养熟是唯一的三满载区Fattening is the only triple-full-load zone
依恋、爱情三角、相互依赖只在养熟段同时满载。论文明确写道：这是整个流程中最长的一段。Attachment, triangular love and interdependence run at full load simultaneously only during the fattening stage. The paper states it plainly: this is the longest stretch of the whole pipeline.
依恋理论是一次性的Attachment theory is single-use
七行里唯一"无—满—无"的形状。到杀猪阶段，需要维系的已不是情感安全感，而是伙伴关系与目标一致。The only "none — full — none" shape among the seven rows. By the harvest stage, what needs sustaining is no longer emotional security but partnership and alignment of goals.
传播理论从不退场The communication theories never leave the stage
IMT 与 SPT 全程在线，为后续的情感依赖与动机操纵持续搭脚手架。IMT and SPT stay online throughout, continually scaffolding the emotional dependence and motivational manipulation that follow.
动机理论后置发力The motivational theories fire late
到杀猪阶段双双满载：受害者在感觉最良好的时刻打出最大一笔钱。Both hit full load at the harvest stage: the victim wires the largest sum at the moment they feel best about themselves.
三阶段各自在做什么What each of the three stages is doing
Stage by Stage找猪Hunting
相对短促relatively briefIMT 与 SPT 提供全部工具，马斯洛与 SDT 解释这些动作为什么奏效：渐进的互相开放满足归属与关联，稳定一致的人设满足低阶安全需求。IMT and SPT supply all the tools; Maslow and SDT explain why those moves work: graduated mutual opening satisfies belonging and relatedness, while a stable, consistent persona satisfies lower-order safety needs.
养熟Raising
全流程最长的一段the longest stretch of the pipeline依恋提供情感安全的骨架，爱情三角提供关系的合理性叙事，相互依赖制造共同未来。同时引入受控的自主感。表面对等，底层是不对称权力结构。Attachment supplies the skeleton of emotional safety, the triangular theory supplies a plausible narrative for the relationship, and interdependence manufactures a shared future. Alongside them, a controlled sense of autonomy is introduced. On the surface it looks equal; underneath it is an asymmetric power structure.
杀猪Killing
动机理论居中motivational theories take center stageSDT 三项需求与马斯洛高阶需求同时被满足。IMT 转向道德人设（收益用于慈善）。依恋在此退场。SDT's three needs and Maslow's higher-order needs are satisfied at the same time. IMT pivots to a moral persona (the profits go to charity). Attachment exits here.
论文没做这个判断，但阶段模型把它推得很近。话术那一层在 AI 之前就已经被压缩完了——26 份手册本身就是压缩产物。已经是查表操作，没给 AI 留边际空间。手册就是前 AI 时代的话术模型。The paper does not make this call, but its stage model pushes you very close to it. The script layer had already been compressed before AI arrived — the 26 manuals are themselves the compressed artifact. It is already a lookup operation, leaving AI no marginal room. The manuals are the pre-AI language model of seduction scripts.
真正的产能瓶颈始终在养熟段，形状是人力 × 时长 × 一致性。而依恋理论要生效恰好需要三样东西：可靠在场、稳定回应、细节记忆——这正是园区里被 KPI 驱动、轮班作业的劳动力最做不到的，也正是 LLM 最擅长的。The real capacity bottleneck has always been the fattening stage, and its shape is headcount × duration × consistency. For attachment theory to take effect, three things are needed: dependable presence, steady responsiveness, memory for detail — exactly what a KPI-driven, shift-rotating workforce inside a scam compound is worst at, and exactly what an LLM is best at.
所以：AI 冲击最深的既不是话术生成，也不是假平台，而是「持续情感在场」这项劳动。瓶颈消失后，长尾小额目标第一次变得有利可图。So: what AI disrupts most deeply is neither script generation nor the fake platform, but the labor of sustained emotional presence. Once that bottleneck disappears, long-tail low-value targets become profitable for the first time.
线上：从七个理论倒推红旗Online: reverse-engineering red flags from the seven theories
每个理论的操作化都留下可检测的指纹。单点全部无效——每一条都能在正常关系里找到，判据永远是簇与轨迹。Every theory, once operationalized, leaves a detectable fingerprint. No single point is decisive — every item here can be found in a perfectly normal relationship. The criterion is always the cluster and the trajectory.
人设的完整度异常The persona is anomalously complete
T1 印象管理T1 Impression management- 人设太完整。家庭、教育、财务、感情史四条线齐整、互相咬合、随时能续上。真人的自我呈现是坑坑洼洼的。完整本身就是异常。The persona is too complete. Family, education, finances and romantic history — four tidy lines that interlock and can be extended on demand. Real people present themselves full of potholes. Completeness is itself the anomaly.
- 间接炫富比直接炫富更可疑。手册明确禁止直白的收入宣示。该警觉的恰恰是通过日常细节自然流露的优渥。Indirect displays of wealth are more suspicious than direct ones. The manuals explicitly ban blunt declarations of income. What deserves your attention is precisely affluence that seems to leak out naturally through everyday detail.
- 生活照不是真实的证据。手册要求用生活化照片、避免过于精修的艺术照。"照片很随意所以应该是真人"这条推理，是被针对性设计过的。Candid photos are not evidence of authenticity. The manuals require everyday snapshots and forbid over-retouched studio portraits. The inference "the photos look casual, so it must be a real person" is exactly what was engineered against.
对话结构被控制The structure of the conversation is being controlled
T2 社会渗透T2 Social penetration- 五项审计。相识早期，对话被不着痕迹地覆盖完年龄、职业、婚姻状况、有无房、有无车。正常陌生人不会在头几周把你的资产结构盘一遍。The five-point audit. Early in the acquaintance, the conversation has seamlessly covered your age, occupation, marital status, whether you own property and whether you own a car. A normal stranger does not inventory your balance sheet in the first few weeks.
- 开场太精准。手册禁止"你好在干嘛"式开场，要求从对方动态切入。陌生人的第一句话如果做过功课，值得记一笔。The opener is too well-aimed. The manuals forbid "hi, what are you up to" openers and require starting from something the target posted. If a stranger's first line shows they did their homework, make a note of it.
- 节奏被控制。聊天简短但留余味，每次以"晚点再聊"收尾。你在等对方回消息——那是被设计的状态。The tempo is being controlled. Chats stay short but leave a hook, closing each time with something like "talk later." You end up waiting for their reply — that state was designed.
可靠性与照护方向Reliability, and the direction of caregiving
T3 依恋T3 Attachment- 可靠性来得太快且零失误。真人建立这种稳定性需要时间成本，且会有失误。Reliability arrives too fast and with zero slip-ups. A real person needs time to build that kind of steadiness, and will slip up along the way.
- 照护方向发生反转。对方早期自曝丧失、被抛弃、感情创伤，然后你开始主动关心他。手册把这一步写成明确的里程碑。The direction of caregiving reverses. Early on they disclose loss, abandonment, romantic trauma — and then you start looking after them. The manuals write this step down as an explicit milestone.
梦想被升格并加码The dream gets upgraded and the stakes raised
T5 相互依赖T5 Interdependence- 加码。你说想买本田，话头变成一起买奔驰或保时捷。真实伴侣通常顺着你的预算聊，不会往上抬。Raising the stakes. You say you want a Honda; the conversation becomes buying a Mercedes or a Porsche together. A real partner usually talks within your budget rather than bidding it up.
动机信号（最反直觉的一组）Motivational signals (the most counterintuitive set)
T6 马斯洛 · T7 自我决定T6 Maslow · T7 Self-determination- "你自己拿主意"。在谈到钱的时候反复强调你的自主权。这感觉像压力的反面，所以几乎没人把它当红旗——而手册的目的正是让追加投入变成你的自我认可行为。"It's your own call." Whenever money comes up, your autonomy gets stressed again and again. It feels like the opposite of pressure, so almost nobody reads it as a red flag — and that is exactly the point: the manuals want each additional payment to become an act of self-affirmation on your part.
- "是我在帮你，不是你在配合我"。把人情方向倒过来。"I'm doing you a favor, not the other way round." The direction of obligation is flipped.
- 可控的小赢。先安排一次能提得出来的小额盈利。A controlled small win. A modest profit is arranged first — one you can actually withdraw.
- 内幕 + 稀缺 + 时间窗同时出现。三者同现基本可以直接判定。Inside information plus scarcity plus a time window, all at once. When all three appear together, you can essentially call it on the spot.
- 犹豫被道德化。不投被描述成观念落后、格局不够、辜负期待。Hesitation gets moralized. Not investing is described as backward thinking, small-mindedness, letting people down.
一、单点都正常，序列不正常。真正的判据是顺序：人设完整 → 五项审计 → 迁移到私密 app → 受控的亲密节奏 → 共同未来 → 自主话术 → 小额可提现 → 稀缺时间窗。这个序列没有良性版本。One: every single point is normal; the sequence is not. The real criterion is the order: complete persona → five-point audit → migration to a more private app → controlled intimacy tempo → shared future → autonomy script → small withdrawable profit → scarce time window. There is no benign version of this sequence.
二、"但对方从没谈恋爱"不构成豁免。手册对拒绝浪漫路线的目标有专门预案：转朋友、转导师、转家庭线。Two: "but they never made it romantic" is no exemption. The manuals carry dedicated contingencies for targets who refuse the romantic route: switch to friend, to mentor, to family.
线下：会见面、会结婚、会生育的那一类Offline: the kind who will meet you, marry you, have children with you
线上骗局的产品是信任；线下骗局的产品是不可逆的纠缠。The product of an online scam is trust; the product of an offline scam is irreversible entanglement.
为什么线上那套信号会失效Why the online signals stop working
Why It Changes线下骗局的核心资产恰恰是那些"证明"：他真的来见你了、真的和你同居了、真的和你结婚了、真的有了孩子。受害者把这些当作真实性的证据，但在结构上它们是锁，不是证。The core asset of an offline scam is precisely those "proofs": he really did come to meet you, really did move in with you, really did marry you, really did have a child with you. Victims read these as evidence of authenticity, but structurally they are locks, not proof.
所以判据必须转向两个问题：他的人生是否可被独立核实，以及每一步不可逆的推进，对谁有利。So the criterion has to shift to two questions: can his life be independently verified, and who benefits from each irreversible step forward.
先切类型：看目标函数First sort by type: look at the objective function
Typology职业型 / 团伙型Professional / organized
目标函数：钱 · 高周转Objective: money · high turnover从第一天起就是骗，有复用剧本、有周转率。特征是周转率而非演技：短期内多次闪婚闪离、多线并行、交往时间重合。国内已有团伙案判至十二年、涉案二百余万。It is a con from day one, with reusable scripts and a turnover rate. The distinguishing feature is turnover, not acting ability: repeated flash marriages and divorces in a short period, several targets in parallel, overlapping relationship timelines. In China, one gang case has already drawn a twelve-year sentence over more than two million yuan.
机会寄生型Opportunistic parasite
目标函数：持续榨取Objective: sustained extraction感情起点可能是真的，发现你可被持续榨取后转向。最难识别。判据只能看资源流向的单向性是否随时间固化。The feelings may have been genuine at the outset; the turn comes once he discovers you can be extracted from indefinitely. This is the hardest type to detect. The only workable criterion is whether the one-way flow of resources hardens over time.
控制型Coercive controller
目标函数：控制Objective: control钱只是工具，隔离、贬低、监视、制造依赖才是主线（Evan Stark 的 coercive control 框架）。最危险，也最容易被误读成"他只是太在乎我"。Money is only a tool; isolation, belittling, surveillance and manufactured dependence are the main line (Evan Stark's coercive control framework). The most dangerous type, and the one most easily misread as "he just cares about me too much."
掩护型Cover story
目标函数：遮盖Objective: concealment婚姻用来遮盖别的：已有配偶、性取向、巨额债务、疾病、身份需求。特征是极力维持表面完整、同时极力回避深度接触。The marriage is used to cover something else: an existing spouse, sexual orientation, enormous debt, illness, a need for legal status. The signature is working hard to keep the surface intact while working just as hard to avoid any deep contact.
判据是看目标函数：要钱的会催进度、要控制的会收缩你的世界、要掩护的会维持距离。The criterion is the objective function: the one who wants money rushes the timeline, the one who wants control shrinks your world, the one who wants cover keeps his distance.
主信号：可验证性不对称The master signal: asymmetry of verifiability
Master Signal可验证性不对称Asymmetry of verifiability
线下主信号the master offline signal- 社会网络单向透明。他认识你的父母、闺蜜、同事、老同学；你认识他的——零个原生关系人。The social network is transparent in one direction only. He knows your parents, your closest friends, your colleagues, your old classmates; the number of people from his own original circle that you know is zero.
- 时间纵深缺失。没有老朋友、没有大学同学、没有前同事、没有可以带你去的童年地理坐标。一个人可以没有钱、没有房、没有体面工作，但很难没有过去。There is no depth in time. No old friends, no university classmates, no former colleagues, no childhood place he can take you to. A person can lack money, property or a respectable job, but it is very hard to lack a past.
- 文档不透明。身份证全名、户籍、学历、婚姻状况、征信——每一项单独被拒绝时都有合理理由。合理理由的连续出现本身就是信号。The paperwork is opaque. Full name on the ID card, household registration, academic credentials, marital status, credit report — each refusal, taken alone, comes with a reasonable explanation. A run of reasonable explanations is itself the signal.
- 反应测试——单点里最可靠的一个。正常伴侣对核实的反应是轻微被冒犯、觉得好笑、或干脆配合，情绪波动很小，因为核实对他没有代价。剥削者的反应是升级：受伤、愤怒、指控你不信任、或先发制人反咬。情绪强度泄露了利害关系。The reaction test — the single most reliable indicator on its own. A normal partner reacts to being verified with mild offense, amusement, or simple cooperation; the emotional swing is small, because verification costs him nothing. An exploiter escalates: hurt, anger, accusations that you don't trust him, or a pre-emptive counterattack. The intensity of the emotion gives away the stakes.
速度：最强的单一预测变量Speed: the strongest single predictor
速度的功能就是阻止核实the function of speed is to block verification- 时间线压缩形状：猛烈追求 → 快速确立排他 → 快速同居 → 快速怀孕或结婚 → 财务合并。The shape of a compressed timeline: intense pursuit → fast move to exclusivity → fast cohabitation → fast pregnancy or marriage → merged finances.
- 司法系统已采纳这个判据。"短期内多次闪婚并收取高额彩礼"被明确列为认定彩礼诈骗的重要特征。孙某案的认定依据是：四年内三段婚姻、每次都收较高彩礼、存续时间都短、历次离婚诉讼中男方对"婚后无夫妻之实、女方回娘家居住"的描述高度一致。The courts have already adopted this criterion. "Repeated flash marriages over a short period while collecting large bride prices" is explicitly listed as a key marker for finding bride-price fraud. In the Sun case the finding rested on: three marriages within four years, a substantial bride price collected each time, each marriage short-lived, and — across the successive divorce suits — highly consistent statements from the husbands that "there was no real married life and the wife went back to live with her own family."
- 实用问法：每次进度被提前时，问一句——这个提前对谁有利？A practical question to ask: every time the timeline gets moved up, ask — who benefits from moving it up?
财务架构：看结构，不看金额Financial architecture: look at the structure, not the amount
B 型核心指纹core fingerprint of type B- 职业型通常不是直接要钱，而是把架构做歪。The professional type usually does not ask for money outright; he bends the architecture.
- 资产落在他名下，负债落在你名下；你的征信被使用（担保、网贷、信用卡、车贷）。The assets land in his name, the liabilities land in yours; your credit record gets used (guarantees, online loans, credit cards, car finance).
- "临时"安排从不逆转：房子先写他名字、工资先打他卡、公司先挂他股权。"Temporary" arrangements never get reversed: the flat goes in his name for now, your salary goes to his card for now, the company equity is held by him for now.
- 危机的节律性。总有外部原因，总是恰好赶在你要核实、要出差、要跟家人商量之前。Crises arrive with a rhythm. There is always an external cause, and it always lands just before you were going to verify something, travel for work, or talk it over with your family.
隔离梯度：最难自查的一条The isolation gradient: the hardest one to audit in yourself
C 型主线，四型都会用the main line of type C, used by all four- 每一步都被包装成亲密或忠诚：他们不懂我们、你朋友对我有意见、我们搬远一点更清静。Every step is packaged as intimacy or loyalty: they don't understand us, your friends have a problem with me, we'd have more peace if we moved further out.
- 可操作的测量方法：写下两年前你每月会见面的人，再写现在。如果这个名单在缩短，而缩短的每一次都有一个和他有关的理由——不管理由多合理——这就是隔离。A workable way to measure it: write down the people you saw monthly two years ago, then write down the list today. If the list is shrinking, and every contraction came with a reason connected to him — however reasonable each reason was — that is isolation.
生育作为锁定机制Childbearing as a locking mechanism
中文语境里几乎没被当作诈骗环节讨论rarely discussed as part of the fraud in Chinese-language coverage- 生育把退出成本推到结构性的最高点：抚养义务、共同债务、离婚冷静期、社会评价、经济中断，全部叠加。孩子是最便宜、最不可逆的锁。Having a child pushes the cost of exit to its structural maximum: maintenance obligations, joint debt, the divorce cooling-off period, social judgment and career interruption all stack up at once. A child is the cheapest and least reversible lock there is.
- 时机相关性。怀孕的时间点是否恰好落在你试图后退、准备离开、或某个财务节点之前。反复出现的时机巧合不是巧合。Correlation with timing. Does the pregnancy land right when you were pulling back, preparing to leave, or just before some financial milestone? A coincidence of timing that keeps recurring is not a coincidence.
- 避孕主导权的争夺。破坏避孕、谎称已避孕、以情感理由施压放弃避孕——文献里称为 reproductive coercion。The struggle over who controls contraception. Sabotaging birth control, lying about having used it, applying emotional pressure to abandon it — the literature calls this reproductive coercion.
- 生育后的相变。最常见的模式：孩子出生后行为质变——投入锐减、要求增加、控制加码。原因很直白：锁已经上了，维持面具的边际收益消失了。The phase change after birth. The commonest pattern: behavior changes in kind once the child arrives — investment drops sharply, demands increase, control tightens. The reason is blunt: the lock is on, so the marginal return on maintaining the mask has vanished.
- 已到这一步，识别的意义从"要不要继续"变成"如何有序保护自己和孩子"，优先级是法律咨询与安全计划。At this point, the purpose of recognition shifts from "should I continue" to "how do I protect myself and my child in an orderly way," and the priorities become legal advice and a safety plan.
不可逆性阶梯The irreversibility ladder
The Closing Window把所有信号放到一条轴上：可核实空间随关系推进而收缩，退出成本同步抬升。两条曲线交叉的地方，就是最后一个还来得及的位置。Put every signal on a single axis: the space in which you can verify anything contracts as the relationship advances, while the cost of leaving rises in step. Where the two curves cross is the last position at which it is still not too late.
示意图 · 曲线形状为定性表达，非实测数据Schematic · the curve shapes are qualitative, not measured data
它不是让你推迟亲密，是让你把核实动作前置到窗口还开着的时候。同一件事在认识三个月做，成本是一次略尴尬的对话；在生育之后做，成本是一场诉讼加半生。It is not asking you to postpone intimacy. It is asking you to move the act of verification earlier, while the window is still open. The same step taken three months in costs you one slightly awkward conversation; taken after a child is born, it costs a lawsuit and half a lifetime.
核实是一次性成本，不核实是持续性风险。这是整张图里最划算的一笔交易。Verifying is a one-off cost; not verifying is an ongoing risk. That is the best trade on this whole map.
核实工具与法律路径Verification tools and legal routes
信号只是让你决定要不要查。这一部是怎么查、以及查出来之后有哪些出口。本节非法律意见，具体个案请咨询执业律师。Signals only tell you whether to look. This part is about how to look, and what exits exist once you have looked. Nothing here is legal advice; for any specific case, consult a licensed lawyer.
公开可用的核实渠道Publicly available verification channels
Verification婚姻效力这条路比多数人以为的窄Challenging the validity of a marriage is a narrower road than most people assume
Civil Code- 可撤销婚姻只有两条Only two grounds for annulment
- 民法典出台前只有"受胁迫"；
1053 条新增"隐瞒重大疾病"，现在共两个Before the Civil Code there was only "coercion";Article 1053added "concealment of a serious illness," making two in total - 关键限制The key limitation
- 法条明确：目前法律承认的欺诈结婚情形仅隐瞒重大疾病一种。财富、职位等方面的欺诈，出于婚姻非交易性的考虑，法律上不认为会影响结婚决策的效力The statute is explicit: the only form of fraudulent marriage the law currently recognizes is concealment of a serious illness. Deception about wealth or position is, on the reasoning that marriage is not a transaction, held not to affect the validity of the decision to marry
- 重大疾病的范围What counts as a serious illness
- 法律未统一规定，实践参考《母婴保健法》等，一般指严重遗传性疾病、指定传染病（艾滋、淋病、梅毒、麻风等）、有关精神病There is no unified statutory list; in practice courts refer to the Maternal and Infant Health Care Law and similar rules, generally meaning serious genetic disorders, designated infectious diseases (HIV/AIDS, gonorrhea, syphilis, leprosy and the like), and relevant psychiatric illnesses
- 程序与时效Procedure and limitation period
- 只能由法院撤销，且须自知道或应当知道撤销事由起一年内提出Only a court can annul, and the petition must be brought within one year of the day you knew or should have known of the ground for annulment
- 生育的影响The effect of having children
- 法院审查会看婚后实际共同生活状况、是否生育小孩、婚后生活紧密度——生育会显著削弱撤销请求的成立空间In its review the court looks at how the couple actually lived together after the wedding, whether a child was born, and how closely intertwined their married life was — having a child substantially narrows the room for an annulment claim to succeed
"他骗了我的钱和感情"在民事上通常撤销不了婚姻，只能走离婚 + 财产分割 + 侵权/不当得利，或者刑事路径。把期待放对位置，能省掉很多无效的挣扎。"He defrauded me of my money and my feelings" will usually not get a marriage annulled in civil proceedings. The available routes are divorce plus division of property plus a tort or unjust-enrichment claim, or the criminal route. Setting your expectations in the right place saves a great deal of wasted struggle.
财物与刑事路径Property and criminal routes
Bride Price & Criminal- 禁止借婚姻索取财物Extracting property through marriage is prohibited
- 民法典
1042 条明确禁止；《关于审理涉彩礼纠纷案件适用法律若干问题的规定》（法释〔2024〕1号）第二条重申，一方以彩礼为名借婚姻索取财物，另一方要求返还的，法院应予支持Article 1042of the Civil Code prohibits it outright; Article 2 of the Provisions on Several Issues Concerning the Application of Law in Bride-Price Dispute Cases (Judicial Interpretation [2024] No. 1) restates that where one party uses the bride price as a pretext to extract property through the marriage, a court shall support the other party's claim for its return - 典型案例库The guiding-case corpus
- 最高法先后发布三批共 13 个涉彩礼纠纷典型案例The Supreme People's Court has released three batches, 13 cases in all, as typical bride-price disputes
- 诈骗罪认定公式The formula for establishing fraud
- 非法占有目的 + 虚构事实或隐瞒真相 + 受害人基于错误认识交付财物Intent to unlawfully take possession + fabricating facts or concealing the truth + the victim handing over property on the basis of that mistaken belief
- 婚恋诈骗典型行为Typical conduct in romance and marriage fraud
- 化名、虚构家庭背景与婚姻状态、短时间内与多人订婚闪婚、收钱后拒绝共同生活或无故失踪Using a false name; fabricating family background and marital status; getting engaged or flash-married to several people in a short span; refusing to live together after taking the money, or disappearing without explanation
- 数额门槛Monetary thresholds
- 三千至一万（较大）· 三万至十万（巨大）· 五十万以上（特别巨大）3,000–10,000 yuan (relatively large) · 30,000–100,000 (huge) · above 500,000 (especially huge)
- 刑民衔接（新变化）Civil-to-criminal referral (a recent change)
- 卢某案中，法院在审理民事案件时发现其身涉多起彩礼纠纷、受案时间集中、部分交往时间重合，主动向公安机关移送线索，最终以诈骗罪定罪In the Lu case, while hearing the civil matter the court noticed that the defendant was involved in multiple bride-price disputes, that the filings clustered in time, and that some of the relationships overlapped; it referred the leads to the police on its own initiative, and a fraud conviction followed
- 其他相关Other relevant provisions
- 重婚罪（刑法 258 条）·《反家庭暴力法》与人身安全保护令 · 离婚冷静期三十天Bigamy (Criminal Law Article 258) · the Anti-Domestic Violence Law and personal safety protection orders · the thirty-day divorce cooling-off period
分寸与安全Proportion and safety
这一部比前面所有红旗都重要。用错了分寸，防御本身会变成伤害。This part matters more than every red flag before it. Get the proportion wrong and the defense itself becomes the harm.
- 假阳性有真实代价。大多数让人不安的关系不是诈骗，是普通的沟通问题、不安全依恋、或者经济压力。判据永远是簇 + 轨迹：多条信号同时出现，且随时间朝同一方向固化。单点全部无效——本图中每一个信号都能在正常关系里找到。False positives carry a real cost. Most relationships that make you uneasy are not fraud; they are ordinary communication problems, insecure attachment, or financial strain. The criterion is always cluster plus trajectory: several signals appearing together and hardening in the same direction over time. No single point is decisive — every signal on this map can be found in a perfectly normal relationship.
- 核实不是监控。查公开记录、要求对等披露、婚前公证，这些是正当的；偷看手机、装定位、查行踪、找人跟踪——这些本身就是控制手段，你会在防御的过程中变成你在防的东西，而且在法律上站不住。Verification is not surveillance. Checking public records, asking for reciprocal disclosure, notarizing a prenuptial agreement — these are legitimate. Reading his phone in secret, planting a tracker, monitoring his movements, having him followed — these are themselves instruments of control. You will become, in the course of defending yourself, the very thing you were defending against, and none of it will stand up legally.
- 退出是整个过程中最危险的阶段。分离期是亲密关系暴力风险的峰值，这是稳定的研究结论。如果关系中已出现过暴力、威胁、跟踪或极端情绪失控，次序应该是：先做安全计划和法律咨询，再谈搜集证据和对峙。人身安全保护令可以在起诉离婚前单独申请。Leaving is the most dangerous phase of the whole process. The separation period is the peak of intimate-partner violence risk; that is a stable research finding. If the relationship has already involved violence, threats, stalking or extreme loss of emotional control, the order should be: safety plan and legal advice first, gathering evidence and confrontation second. A personal safety protection order can be applied for on its own, before any divorce petition is filed.
在任何不可逆的承诺之前——结婚、生育、共同负债、资产过户——如果对方对「核实」的反应是情绪升级而不是配合，就停在那里。Before any irreversible commitment — marriage, children, joint debt, transferring an asset — if the other person responds to being verified with emotional escalation rather than cooperation, stop right there.
理由很简单：正常关系里，核实对被核实方没有代价，所以不值得动怒；而所有四类骗局，核实都是唯一致命的东西。情绪强度泄露了利害关系。这条规则的好处是它不需要你判断人心，只需要你观察一次反应——而且它对假阳性友好：一个坦荡的人被核实之后，关系不会受损。The reason is simple: in a normal relationship, being verified costs the verified party nothing, so there is nothing worth getting angry about; whereas in all four types of con, verification is the one lethal thing. The intensity of the emotion gives away the stakes. The virtue of this rule is that it does not require you to read someone's heart, only to observe one reaction — and it is friendly to false positives: an honest person, once verified, is not damaged by it.
正版形态：同一批机制的健康版本The genuine article: the healthy version of the same mechanisms
只讲防御会把人训练成惊弓之鸟——而这七种机制本来就是真实亲密关系的生成机制。手册伪造的是它们的输出，绕过的是它们的输入。把输入补上，就是正版。Teaching defense alone trains people into perpetual flinching — yet these seven mechanisms are, in the first place, what generates real intimacy. What the manuals forge is their outputs; what the manuals bypass is their inputs. Put the inputs back and you have the genuine article.
可迁移的六件事Six things that actually transfer
What Actually Works感知到的伴侣回应性Perceived partner responsiveness
Reis & Shaver · 关系科学中证据最扎实的单一构念Reis & Shaver · the single best-evidenced construct in relationship science三个成分：理解（我看见了你的实际处境）、认可（你的反应是合理的）、关心（我在乎）。它不是技巧，是注意力的分配方式。Three components: understanding (I see the situation you are actually in), validation (your reaction makes sense), and caring (I mind about it). It is not a technique; it is a way of allocating attention.
对应Maps to手册伪造的正是这一项（T3 依恋），这恰恰说明它是真正的杠杆所在。This is precisely what the manuals forge (T3, attachment), which is exactly why it is the real lever.
互惠式自我披露Reciprocal self-disclosure
Aron et al., 1997 · 三十六个问题Aron et al., 1997 · the 36 questions机制不是问题本身，是逐级升高的双向脆弱性。单向不算，你多说对方不说也不算。The mechanism is not the questions themselves but escalating two-way vulnerability. One-directional doesn't count, and neither does you saying more while they say less.
对应Maps toT2 社会渗透的健康版本。用在真人身上没有伦理问题——因为它要求你也暴露。The healthy version of T2, social penetration. There is no ethical problem in using it on a real person — because it requires you to expose yourself too.
米开朗基罗现象The Michelangelo phenomenon
Drigotas & Rusbult伴侣如果持续确认并支持你理想中的自己，你会真的更接近那个自己，关系满意度也更高。If a partner consistently affirms and supports your ideal self, you actually move closer to that self, and relationship satisfaction rises with it.
对应Maps toT5 相互依赖的正版：支持对方已有的目标，而不是替对方制造目标再加码。The genuine version of T5, interdependence: support the goal the other person already has, rather than manufacturing a goal for them and then raising the stakes on it.
维护侧：不把关系搞坏The maintenance side: not wrecking the relationship
Gottman & Levenson · 连接请求、正负比、四骑士Gottman & Levenson · bids for connection, the positive-to-negative ratio, the Four Horsemen关注对方发出的连接请求并"转向"、维持正向互动占优、避开四骑士（批评、蔑视、防御、筑墙），其中蔑视的破坏力最强。Notice your partner's bids for connection and "turn toward" them, keep positive interactions in the majority, and avoid the Four Horsemen (criticism, contempt, defensiveness, stonewalling) — of which contempt is by far the most destructive.
投入产出Return on effort这讲的不是吸引，是维护。但避免蔑视的收益远高于任何吸引技巧。This is about maintenance, not attraction. But the payoff from avoiding contempt far exceeds that of any attraction technique.
依恋安全Attachment security
成人依恋 · 习得的安全（earned security）adult attachment · earned security自己的依恋风格比任何战术都更影响关系走向，且成人期可以改变。Your own attachment style shapes where a relationship goes more than any tactic does, and it can still change in adulthood.
坏消息The bad news它不快。但它是唯一真正改变基线的变量，其余都是在基线上做微调。It is not fast. But it is the only variable that genuinely moves the baseline; everything else is fine-tuning on top of that baseline.
相似性 · 接近性 · 单纯曝光Similarity · proximity · mere exposure
Festinger · Zajonc无聊，但解释力比一切话术都大：你和谁相似、和谁物理上接近、和谁重复见面，比你说什么更能预测关系发生。Boring, but with more explanatory power than any script: who you resemble, who you are physically near, and who you keep running into predict whether a relationship happens far better than anything you say.
推论Corollary与其学红酒古典乐去装备吸引力，不如把时间花在你真正会持续出现的场合。Rather than studying wine and classical music to equip yourself with allure, spend the time on the places you will genuinely keep showing up.
关系科学不是硬科学，引用时该带上折扣：Gottman 早期"预测离婚准确率九成以上"的说法被批评为事后拟合，跨样本的前瞻预测力弱得多；三十六个问题制造的是亲近感，"让陌生人相爱"是媒体演绎；依恋风格的分类稳定性也不如流行读物暗示的那么高。当作方向可用，当作公式会失望。Relationship science is not a hard science, and should be cited at a discount. Gottman's early claim of "over 90% accuracy in predicting divorce" has been criticized as post-hoc fitting; prospective predictive power across fresh samples is far weaker. The 36 questions generate closeness; "making strangers fall in love" is a media embellishment. And the classification stability of attachment styles is lower than popular books imply. Useful as a direction; disappointing as a formula.
把手册当恋爱教材会掉进一个具体的坑。一是可检测：本图第贰、叁部的所有指纹，反过来也是你的指纹。二是不可持续：表演出来的回应性成本极高，而真实的回应性成本极低，因为它不是表演。Treating the manuals as a dating textbook lands you in a specific trap. First, they are detectable: every fingerprint in Parts II and III of this map would, in reverse, be your fingerprint. Second, they are unsustainable: performed responsiveness is enormously expensive, while genuine responsiveness costs almost nothing, because it is not a performance.
手册之所以能跑，是因为操盘手不在乎、且关系有明确的结束日期。同一件事在手册里成立、在真实关系里失效，原因是你的关系没有结束日期。The manuals work because the operator does not care and the relationship has a definite end date. The same move holds up in the manual and fails in a real relationship for one reason: your relationship has no end date.
出处与局限Sources and limitations
- 翻译损失。原文为中文，依赖机器翻译，仅由一位中文母语同事复核关键段落。Translation loss. The originals are in Chinese and machine translation was relied upon, with only one native-Chinese-speaking colleague reviewing the key passages.
- 没有时间轴。手册缺少创建日期，无法研究战术如何随时间演化。No timeline. The manuals carry no creation dates, so how the tactics evolved over time cannot be studied.
- 样本有地域偏向。数据集以针对中国受害者的手册为主。Geographic bias in the sample. The dataset consists mainly of manuals aimed at Chinese victims.
- 来源不可追溯。作者身份、分发链路、版本迭代全部无法确证。Untraceable provenance. Authorship, distribution chain and version history are all unverifiable.
Whittaker 等人（2024）批评"杀猪盘"是粗鄙隐喻的直译，把受害者比作待宰牲畜，会强化污名与受害者指责。学界提出过多个替代术语，但都未获一致采用。中文语境里这个词已几乎无法替换；但至少可以避免复用"猪"这个比喻去指称受害者。本图全程遵循这一条。Whittaker et al. (2024) criticize "pig butchering" as the literal rendering of a crude metaphor that likens victims to livestock awaiting slaughter, reinforcing stigma and victim-blaming. Several replacement terms have been proposed in the literature, none of them consistently adopted. In Chinese the term is by now almost impossible to displace; what can be done, at minimum, is to avoid reusing the "pig" metaphor to refer to victims. This map follows that rule throughout.
核心文献Core source
- Asyalı, A. N., Frank, M.-L., & Hölzmer, P. (2026). Fake it till you make it: the psychological and communication tactics behind “Pig Butchering” scams. Journal of Cybersecurity, 12(1), tyag003. DOI: 10.1093/cybsec/tyag003 · 开放获取，含补充材料 A/B/C, 12(1), tyag003. DOI: 10.1093/cybsec/tyag003 · open access, with Supplementary Materials A/B/C
论文所依赖的关键上游Key upstream work the paper relies on
- Wang, F. & Zhou, X. (2023). Victims & Offenders, 18, 915–942. — 三阶段划分的源头, 18, 915–942. — origin of the three-stage division
- Wang, F. & Topalli, V. (2024). Computers in Human Behavior, 154, 108133. — 产业化与呼叫中心式协同, 154, 108133. — industrialization and call-center-style coordination
- Maras, M.-H. & Ives, E. R. (2024). J. Economic Criminology, 5, 100066.
- Cross, C. (2024). Current Issues in Criminal Justice, 36, 334–346.
- Wang, F. (2024). Trends in Organized Crime. — 园区劳动力本身即受害者. — the compound workforce are themselves victims
- Whittaker, Lazarus & Corcoran (2024). J. Economic Criminology, 3, 100052. — 术语批判, 3, 100052. — critique of the terminology
- Griffin, J. M. & Mei, K. (2024). SSRN. — 资金规模测算SSRN. — estimates of the money involved
- Global Anti-Scam Organisation (GASO). 手册来源方source of the manuals
补位阅读Supplementary reading
- Whitty, M. T. (2013). The Scammers Persuasive Techniques Model. BJC, 53(4), 665–684.
- Stajano, F. & Wilson, P. (2011). CACM, 54(3), 70–75. — 注意：这也是"七个"，但内容完全不同（分心/社会顺从/从众/不诚实/欺骗/需求与贪婪/时间压力），来自 BBC《The Real Hustle》，是安全工程视角。勿与本图七理论混淆。Note: this is also a set of "seven," but an entirely different one (distraction / social compliance / herd / dishonesty / deception / need and greed / time pressure), drawn from the BBC series The Real Hustle and written from a security-engineering perspective. Do not confuse it with the seven theories on this map.
- Stark, E. (2007). Coercive Control. Oxford University Press. — C 型理论来源Oxford University Press. — theoretical source for type C
- Reis, H. T. & Shaver, P. (1988). Intimacy as an interpersonal process. — 回应性构念Intimacy as an interpersonal process. — the responsiveness construct
- Aron, A. et al. (1997). PSPB, 23(4). — 三十六个问题, 23(4). — the 36 questions
- Drigotas, S. M. et al. (1999). JPSP, 77(2). — 米开朗基罗现象, 77(2). — the Michelangelo phenomenon
中国法律与司法Chinese law and jurisprudence
- 《民法典》第 1042 条 · 第 1053 条Civil Code, Article 1042 · Article 1053
- 最高人民法院《关于审理涉彩礼纠纷案件适用法律若干问题的规定》（法释〔2024〕1号）Supreme People's Court, Provisions on Several Issues Concerning the Application of Law in the Trial of Bride-Price Dispute Cases (Judicial Interpretation [2024] No. 1)
- 最高人民法院涉彩礼纠纷典型案例三批共 13 个（含卢某诈骗案、孙某借婚姻索取财物案）Supreme People's Court, three batches of typical bride-price dispute cases, 13 in all (including the Lu fraud case and the Sun case of extracting property through marriage)
- 《反家庭暴力法》（2016）· 人身安全保护令制度Anti-Domestic Violence Law (2016) · the personal safety protection order regime
- 《刑法》第 266 条（诈骗罪）· 第 258 条（重婚罪）Criminal Law, Article 266 (fraud) · Article 258 (bigamy)